Date of Conferral

2-4-2025

Degree

Doctor of Human Services (D.H.S.)

School

Human Services

Advisor

Jeffrey Harlow

Abstract

Stigma, prejudice, and stereotypes, key components of heteronormativity, impact the perceptions, behaviors, health, and psychosocial well-being of lesbian women, potentially undermining self-acceptance, causing internalized homophobia. The generic qualitative study aimed to understand the experiences of Black lesbian women navigating heteronormativity in relation to their parenting desires. Participants included Black lesbians, aged 25-35, who spoke English and had parenting desires within a lesbian relationship. Recruitment occurred via social media and local queer-supporting and parenting organizations. Guided by queer theory and minority stress theory, data were collected through semistructured interviews with 15 African American women in lesbian relationships with desiring parenthood. Thematic analysis generated 13 themes: heteronormativity as a social construct; balancing intersecting identities; partner influence on parenting desires; limited but present cultural and religious influence; acceptance from family and friends; managing structure, logistics, and planning; financial constraints shaping family choices; health in family building; desiring a “mini-me”; nurturing through cultivation; parental authority: “I’m not your little friend”; protecting the family unit; and advocating for more community resources. Findings may foster positive social change by challenging heteronormative norms, promoting inclusivity, and supporting diverse family models. This can enable Black lesbian women to pursue parenting free from stigma and discrimination. Additionally, the study highlights how heteronormativity affects social and community context, health, and healthcare access, impacting the well-being of Black lesbian women and their families.

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